Pattaya Nights & Unexpected Plea: A Friend in Need?

My Pattaya adventures a few years ago led to an unexpected friendship with a bar girl.  We reconnected recently, only to find she's traded bar work for a salon job – a positive change!  However, she's now reached out with a desperate request for money, citing unexpected surgery costs and school fees for her children.  This unexpected plea has left me questioning her honesty and worrying about the potential for exploitation.  Many expats in Thailand face similar situations, navigating complex cultural dynamics and financial pressures.  The rising cost of living in Thailand, particularly in popular tourist destinations like Pattaya, is impacting locals and increasing financial hardship.  While I'm hesitant to offer financial assistance due to past experiences, I'm grappling with empathy and concern.  What would you do in this situation?  Is it possible to help without risking future complications?  Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.  Let's discuss responsible travel and ethical considerations in situations like these.  #Pattaya #Thailand #TravelDilemma #EthicalTravel #ExpatLife #Friendship #FinancialHardship