For you guys who are Non-Javanese Indonesians, how do you deal with the Javanese's indirectness and indecisiveness?

For you guys who are Non-Javanese Indonesians, how do you deal with the Javanese's indirectness and indecisiveness? As a tourist in Indonesia, it doesn't bother me a lot but years ago when I was working in Jakarta, it pissed me off a lot. Because I want everything in the workplace very organized and transparent. Saya tidak mau dibohongi dan lebih lagi tidak mau ditusuk dari belakang. Kalau misalnya ada seseorang yang tidak suka saya atau tidak suka semua kegiatanku, sebaiknya dia langsung berbicara dengan saya. Supaya masalah dapat diatasi dengan lebih awal dan lebih jelas. Now I am not anymore working in Indonesia. But I just wonder how non-Javanese Indonesians deal with those Javanese that are very indirect, hypocrite and full of basa basi?